Wedding is the ceremony where the two souls join together and become one or something that bonded for the life nature and the wedding ceremony is a true function when you marry your loved ones whom you love the most. In your marriage function, you need to very conscious about unification but it is also important to consider the family members of both male and female sides. Most of the newly married women or girl will be happy for few years and there arises the problem from the mother-in law where she has to be careful in dealing her emotionally manipulative mother in law in all her activities and also to avoid many kinds of the problems. In which there are number of ways which you can follow to handle your mother in law just by using the good activities and mannerism.
There are some signs your mother in law is manipulative or controlling you because this could use some help, in general most of the daughter in laws does not like or wants to assume that their mother in law is controlling her by her own and not allowing the daughter in law to do what she thinks.
The only thing which you can do to put this kind of behavior is to cut off at the starting or root itself where this will help you and safeguard you from the difficult or hard times because this kind of behavior will grow like a bad weed and create many kinds of problems in your family and in between family members.
Things by which you can identify your mother in law behavior
The following are the some of the things by which you can identify that your mother in law is controlling you where this will be helping you at many cases. When you find this kind of behavior then you will be finding better relationship with your mother in law where this will help you in many cases. They are.
- She uses the cooking methods to undetermined you
- She shows up the unannounced
- She has the over top reactions in every work
- She always makes the judgment that she is always found to be right
- At every situation she bombards you with the judgmental questions
- She will not like to take the “No” answer from you at any situations or questions
- She holds the habit that she criticizes your family at all cases
When you find that your mother in law holds such kinds of the above behaviors then it is better to change her behavior by speaking with her gently or by spending the time with her.
This will help you in filling gap between you and your mother in law at some situations where this will be making you to lead a better relationship with your mother in law and your partner’s family members where you marriage life will be happier one forever.